How Do I Know If She’s Faking An Orgasm?
Is there any reliable way to know if a woman is faking an orgasm?
"I'll have what she's having. A nice hot cup of orgasm." (original screenplay)
I get asked this question a lot and it’s really interesting because of what is behind the need for the question.
So first, the mechanics of how to tell? There’s no guaranteed way to tell if a woman is faking, but there are signs that she IS orgasming that can’t be faked.
The main ones are, flushing of the upper chest and breasts, and contractions of the vagina. There are other signs that can be faked, breathing, moaning, writhing etc.
But more importantly – why would you think she is faking anyway? Why would any woman fake orgasm?
Usually it’s for two reasons.
1. She can’t or has trouble orgasming and is ashamed to tell you.
Around 50% of women can’t or rarely achieve orgasm. There are many reasons for this which you can read about in this article about why women can’t orgasm.
2. She wants you to feel good and happy with your performance as a lover.
If she loves you and knows that it’s important to you that she thinks you are a good lover she may well fake it just to please you. Even if she is one of the other 50% of women who can orgasm it takes women longer and they need to feel very secure to relax enough to let go. You can read more about how to help her achieve orgasm in this article “9 ways to help her achieve orgasm”
By being sensitive to her feelings, and confident in your own you can help her with both of these.
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