No, we’re not telling you how to catch venereal disease, this is advice on romantic (and not-so-romantic) Valentine’s Day type action, from our lovely columnist, the Wedding TV presenter Nessa “Happy Ever” Wrafter.

Looking for something a bit more special than the pair of sunloungers that are left on your sibling’s gift list? A personalised family history book, produced by a team of professional writers, will give something more lasting than a tan.

Details of a rather tasty offer from Macdonald Hotels and Resorts – buy a wedding and get a honeymoon free.

The final installment of our series on handling the nerves of giving a wedding speech talks about how to get yourself prepared on the big day.

Staggered have only gone and opened a personalised card shop. Who do we think we are, Clinton’s? No, we’re a lot better than your average high street card chain because we won’t get angry if you write all over our cards. In fact we insist you deface them to your heart’s content.

If you’re stuck for a card for the next wedding, anniversary or even, say, Christmas. Then you should let Staggered do all the hard work of finding a great selection of cards, licking the envelope and putting a bloody stamp on it. You just sit back and have a nice cup of tea.

Brenda, I think I am getting cold feet. I know it’s probably just panic and the reality that marriage is really for life, but what can I do to reassure myself that I am marrying the right person for me?
Dear Chilly:
When it comes to getting hitched most men and women have it all wrong. Many women expect their lives to be transformed into some sort of blissful state where everything they never liked about their lives – and themselves – will receive a gorgeous whitewash, whereas too many men …

Before you all accuse us of cynicism, let’s all remember that there are other reasons you might have to change your wedding plans at the last minute than that you’ve found someone better-looking than the woman you handed the ring over to. poor John Tabbutt, from Florida, USA, who last week accidentally shot and killed his fiancée just one day before their wedding. As he worries over whether he’ll get a custodial sentence, John is also having to write to all the caterers, florists, etc. How much can he expect to shell out, and what will be left over for phone cards?

Naturally, you’re pretty excited about all the new stuff you can see on your favourite online wedding magazine for men (that’s us, in case you forgot).

Well we’ve got a quick update on some of the goodies that have gone live now and some info about the good stuff you’ve got to come. You lucky, lucky things.

If you’re looking for a wedding gift for a book lover who fancies themselves a bit (and let’s face it, which book-lovers don’t – “Oh, look at me, reading a book when I could be watching TV.”) then we think personalised classics might be just the thing.

The National Wedding Show arrives at the NEC this weekend and we’ve got five pairs of tickets to give away, as well as some reduced price tickets, so don’t delay!