I’m a bit of a mixed bag when it comes to traditions. Hailing from the almost tradition-less Belgium (yawn) I have rather latched onto the many and sometimes weird and wonderful customs that make Britain what it is. From tea with milk (lemon seems more sane) and vinegar-soaked chips (what’s wrong with mayonnaise?) to queuing and toasting to the queen at dinner parties – you’ve got to love it.
But when it comes to weddings, thinking outside of the box can really work. I have had the pleasure of attending a …

Dear men,
Isn’t it funny how life throws little gems at you? I thought I would sit down for half an hour with my dinner in front of the telly and then write my first blog for Staggered, when by pure chance I flicked onto a program called ‘Don’t Tell the Bride’. (BBC3, Tuesdays, 21:00 and on BBC iPlayer.)
Here’s the concept: A cash poor couple receives twelve grand for their wedding, as long as the groom organises the whole lot. Venue, flowers, entertainment – even the wedding dress, the whole shebang. …